How a Cartoon Character Changed the Way Children Understand Bullying

How a Cartoon Character Changed the Way Children Understand Bullying.

You are probably aware that most schools have an anti-bullying policy in place, and this has been the norm for a good 15 years. How’s that working for us? Have you noticed less bullying stories in the news? Less suicides or less shootings?

We have spent countless tax dollars and endless hours on programs that are created mostly for middle and high school students because, after all, we all know this is when bullying is the worst. So why aren’t these programs producing better results?

A New Movement to help Children

The anti-bullying movement began after the Columbine Massacre of 1999. Georgia became the first state to issue an anti-bullying law one month later. In 2008, California was the first state to enact cyberbullying legislation. All states now have anti-bullying laws.

While there are many great programs now in place, that didn’t exist for me, the fact is that most of them are designed to help students during the typical worst years of 6th grade and higher. At this age, we are now in Damage Control for our children and we missed the mark of reaching them during their formative years.

The relentless bullying started for me in 1st grade. By third grade, I was afraid to go out for recess due to the bullying. It was a constant threat to any type of happy childhood I could have, that ended in 9th grade, due to me finally defending myself. But the damage was done and I suffered for many additional years with making poor choices and having a low self-esteem. 

I’m one of the lucky ones that made it through those dark years and survived to share my story. And I’m determined to make a difference for children who are still suffering from the damages of bullying. This is why we have developed an award-winning school curriculum for students in K-3rd grades. More researchers are now agreeing that we must find a way to incorporate preventative anti-bullying training that is age-appropriate for children during their formative years. 

A Dancing Yeti?

As fortune has it, I played a Yeti in a film back in 2011. On the last day of filming, the crew filmed me dancing in the costume and they loved it! The director asked if he could use the footage of my dancing in the ending credits and this became the beginnings of The Dancing Yeti. Little did I know at the time how my life would change.

Later that year, while on the set of Gangster Squad with Ryan Gosling, I started writing a story about this Yeti character and how he loved to dance. He was a friendly yeti, but all his life he was called a monster and he was hunted and discriminated against because of his looks. The story began with the dancing yeti as a 6 year old boy who left the safe mountain with his grandma, only to be treated poorly by the locals at the new mountain, due to “looking different”.

Eventually, that story became the first of three published anti-bullying books based on the character Junga the Dancing Yeti®. And with the most recent world premiere in La Jolla this past April, all three books have been adapted into animation short films with an international voiceover cast. The most recent film has a football theme and also includes the voices of five former NFL players; four of which are San Diego State alumni.

Confident Life™ Program

The Confident Life™ Anti-bullying Program we created is being distributed through the non-profit Motivated To Act and is being piloted this fall with a school in the SDUSD. It is an evidence-based program that has already won the 2023 Safe Family Seal of Approval for Innovation in Curriculum, from the Child Safety Network®

With our excitement over this program, we decided to branch into the multicultural markets to reach even more young children. We partnered with Canyon Crest Academy and their bright students are helping us to translate all of our books, films and educational programs into additional languages. We already have materials now in Spanish, Mandarin Chinese, French, Vietnamese and Turkish with 15 additional languages planned.

Dance-a-Thon

The next natural step for a Dancing Yeti, is to have a Multi-cultural Dance-a-Thon to raise awareness for bullying and to raise funds to support our programs and supplies to be donated to schools and cultural institutions in the greater San Diego area.

We are having a KICKOFF Party on Wednesday, August 23rd from 6-8pm at The University Club, downtown. At this event, there will be a brief presentation on Motivated To Act, plus speakers from the San Diego chapter of Sister Cities International, Rotary Club, The University Club and more.

We will be delighted with live multicultural performances by Championship Irish Dancers, Traditional Polish Dancers, Traditional Mexican Dancers and we also have a Mystery Dance Troupe that will perform for our 90+ guests.

October is National Bullying Prevention Month

We have reached out to media sources, because we know the general public would love learning more about our upcoming Dance-a-Thon taking place at the Torrey Pines Church in La Jolla on October 14th from 10am to 10pm. We are anticipating having over 30 Dance Troupes performing at this event!

Ours is a story of overcoming adversity and about finding a passion in life to make a positive difference for children, who might not feel they have a voice.

If you are in the San Diego, CA area, come as our guest to the KICKOFF Party on August 23, 2023 from 6-8pm at The University Club.

Please register online today! 

To attend the August 23rd KICKOFF Party:

REGISTER HERE

Stephen Tako

CEO, Motivated To Act

Motivated To Act is a 501(c)3 that enlists the help of Junga the Dancing Yeti®, who children love and admire. This character and his friends are all part of the award-winning school curriculum, the Confident Life™ Program, designed to reduce or end bullying for children.

Creating Peace Across the Globe, Starts at Home

We live in a country where much diversity exists. Accepting that other people may not think and live the way we do is the first step toward embracing diversity. It doesn’t mean that we have to agree with others’ choices, but we certainly may find a way to co-exist on this great planet, in harmony.

All of us at Motivated To Act recognize that children learn many behaviors from examples, either at home, school, television, or elsewhere. The amount of negative energy they receive can be quite staggering for their young impressionable minds and therefore, it is important to guide them away from harmful scenarios by replacing negativity with positive energy.

How do we Encourage our Children to Listen to our Advice?
Start a strong bonding experience with your children when they are young. At a young age, children are your most captive audience, so take advantage of this precious window of opportunity and spend quality time with them.

Reading educational storytelling books with your children is the perfect way to bond with them
and to expose them to age-appropriate lessons such as anti-bullying, fair play, leadership, inclusion, empathy, and more. When children spend quality time listening to or reading books with their parents and/or grandparents, a level of trust and admiration is built, and they feel loved. With this bond in place, children have more respect for their parents and tend to listen more to their advice, feeling they have their best interest at heart.

The Local Multicultural Project
Motivated To Act utilizes the Confident Life™ Program for schools to teach children grades K-3 rd many important skills to help them navigate through their behavioral issues such as bullying
and discrimination. The Confident Life™ program won the Child Safety Network’s 2023 Award
for Innovation in Curriculum. The Multicultural Project’s goal is to have the full program’s curriculum available in many additional languages.

For various reasons, such as careers, new aspirations, natural disasters, wars, and more, families from all over the globe migrate to America every day. After arrival, some families face many challenges including a language barrier.

Our educational materials, being developed in additional languages, including Spanish, Mandarin Chinese, Hindi, Ukrainian, Farsi, and many more, allow family members to continue to bond with their children through storytime activities in their native language. Whether implemented in local households, educational institutions, or community centers, our Multicultural Project is designed to improve the lives of children across America.

Networking to Provide Peace Across the Globe
Our team at Motivated To Act partners with Global institutions such as Rotary International and
Sister Cities International provides aid to underserved children all over the world. We donate our educational materials in English and/or other languages to support family-bonding efforts and to instill beneficial lessons based on inclusion, fair play, truthfulness, conflict resolution, and more.

Children, when learning these important lessons during their formative years, are the key to future generations bridging the pathways of peace.

How You Can Help
Motivated To Act needs your donations to continue the development and distribution of quality programs and their contents to children and schools across America and globally. As we develop the materials in additional languages, we have opportunities for donors to have their Company Logos, their Names, and/or their Child’s names printed in our educational materials.

Helping us donate the Confident Life™ Program to a school of your choice, provides unlimited potential in shaping children’s lives. Creating pathways to peace starts early in childhood; therefore your support of our program development is invaluable and greatly appreciated.

For more information, please visit Motivated To Act or email CEO, Stephen Tako at Stephen@MotivatedToAct.org